I have now lived in my flat, around the corner from my brother in Blackpool, for a year. I was 17 when I left; however, I had known for a long time I had to do it, and when I was 17, I started to get to a point where I knew I had to do it. We were in lockdown, and I was furloughed from my job, and my carers and I were not getting on with each other well.
However, our relationship with each other meant we understood each others point of view; but a lockdown wasn’t making things easy for any of us. It began to change me as I was getting frustrated.
I wanted to change; I wanted to do something and learn more to help myself, and I wanted to be independent. My goal has always been to get my own place at 17. I have always wanted to live independently and have my own space that didn’t have rules that made no sense.
My foster carers knew what I wanted, and for the last 6 months I was there, they started to show me how to do things, like how to work the washing machine and cook a meal. They were getting me ready to begin to live by myself; so, I asked my social worker if I could have a flat in Blackpool because I had found out that my brother lived there.
I feel settled now I have the flat, and I set my mind to get it. Now I have set my mind to getting a job in a garage. I never thought I would ever do anything like this years ago because I could not put my mind to anything. Now, I know that having a clear plan with people who will support me and make me feel I belong, and this will get me somewhere. Also, I know that perfect behaviour and a willingness to graft will get me to the next step.
Me and my previous foster carers are still good terms even now I have left. I go around to see them when I can, and they make me my tea. We still talk to each other, and they still help me out; however, we are all itching to get back to normality. It’s my birthday soon, and I hope we can get together and have a meal.
Note: Byron has currently and successfully completed his Level 3 Car mechanics course and is now looking for employment. Please get in touch if you could offer Byron the opportunity of an interview.
