Before coming to Vincent House, Sharon’s life changed dramatically due to mental health struggles.

“I had a bit of a breakdown – burnout, severe anxiety and depression. I was medically dismissed from my 20-year career, lost my home as a result, because I couldn’t pay my rent. And I wasn’t well enough to pick myself back up again.”

Seeking a fresh start, Sharon relocated to Blackpool to live with her father, hoping a new area and family support would help her heal. Unfortunately, the situation turned unsafe.

“I moved in with my dad, thinking I’d have a support network, but it ended up being an abusive relationship.”

Sharon contacted Housing Options in crisis. A friend who had previously stayed at Vincent House recommended the service, and she requested to come here rather than go to a refuge.

“A friend of mine , one of the only friends I’ve got in Blackpool, used to stay here and he found it really valuable. So I asked the council if I could come here.”

From day one, Sharon found that the staff at Vincent House offered the right balance of support and independence.

“The level of support you get is the level you need, if that makes sense. They don’t push in where they’re not needed, they recognise when you’re struggling. They’re always there  24/7 if I’m having a bad day or feel like doing something I shouldn’t.”

Sharon has been gently encouraged to reflect on setbacks, attend appointments, and rebuild her confidence.

“When I’m not myself, I’m gently prompted and encouraged to talk about what’s going on, what’s slipped, why it’s slipped.”

The staff also recognised Sharon’s interests and have given her meaningful, creative tasks to help her re-engage with herself.

“They worked out that I did the garden and liked to be busy. Now I’m doing up some old furniture as a project. It helps to get you out of your head.”

Sharon recalls a clear moment when things began to shift.

“Probably about eight weeks in, I realised I was safe, I was secure and they were supportive. I wasn’t going to get thrown out because I appeared to be getting better, which is always at the back of your mind.”

For Sharon, structure and consistency have become crucial tools for her recovery.

“There’s quite a rigid routine here. Even if you’re having a bad day, you still have to stick to it. You can’t hide away, you work through it. Whereas before, I’d isolate and shut everyone out. You can’t do that here.”

As her confidence returned, so has the creativity and motivation she thought she’d lost.