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Getting startedInformation

What is fostering?

Offer care and stability when a child cannot live with their birth family.

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Fostering gives children a caring home when they cannot live with their birth family. Their stay may be brief or last through much of childhood. Explore the role and talk with us about what you could offer.

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Who are the children who need foster care?

Get to know the needs behind the fostering role.

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Most children needing foster care are of school age. Their backgrounds and circumstances vary, including family illness, breakdown or concerns about safety. Our fostering service introduces the children’s needs and the care you could provide.

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Taking your first step

Start with a conversation and the questions that matter to you.

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You can contact our team to explore fostering in Lancashire and the North West. Read about the service, request information through our fostering page, or check our event listings for an opportunity to find out more.

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Choosing a fostering agency

Understand the people and support behind your fostering journey.

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Caritas Care is a charity. Our fostering service combines preparation, a dedicated supervising social worker and ongoing support. Explore our approach as you consider which agency feels right for your family.

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Could I foster?Information

Who can become a foster carer?

There is no single type of fostering household.

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We welcome people from varied backgrounds, including single people and LGBTQ+ couples. Your ability to offer a child stability and care matters. Explore our inclusive approach and discuss your circumstances.

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Could I foster?Information

Do I need a spare room?

A child needs a space they can call their own.

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Our FAQs explain that you need a spare room to foster. Talk with us about your home and how it could provide a child with their own space.

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Can I foster if I rent my home?

Home ownership is not a requirement.

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Renting does not rule out fostering. Our FAQs explain that you need to check your tenancy terms and speak with your landlord.

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Could I foster?Information

Do I need parenting experience?

Experience from other parts of your life can be relevant.

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You may bring useful experience from work, volunteering or caring for children you know. Our FAQs suggest ways to build childcare experience before applying.

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What about health or personal history?

Ask about anything you think may affect your application.

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Health and past convictions are considered individually. Our FAQs also cover mental health and smoking or vaping. Talk openly with our team about how the guidance applies to you.

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Types of fosteringInformation

Emergency fostering

Provide a home when a child needs somewhere at short notice.

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Emergency care meets an urgent need for somewhere safe to stay, often for a few days or nights. Discuss the readiness this role requires.

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Short-term fostering

Care for a child while longer-term plans are considered.

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Short-term care may last weeks or months while decisions are made about a child’s future. The length of a placement can be uncertain.

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Long-term fostering

Offer continuity as a child grows.

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When adoption is not the plan, long-term fostering can provide a home through childhood towards adulthood or independence.

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Short breaks and respite

Offer care for agreed periods while a family takes a break.

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Respite can involve overnight stays or regular weekends. Talk with us about the arrangements and the child’s needs.

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Parent and child fostering

Help a parent develop the skills to care for their child.

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This role involves supporting a parent to build their own parenting skills and understanding, so they can care for their child safely.

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Understanding Early Permanence

A route that begins with fostering and may lead to adoption.

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Approved Early Permanence adopters may care for a child as foster carers while the court decides the child’s future. Adoption is not guaranteed: the child may return to birth or extended family.

Our dedicated guidance explains the uncertainty, preparation and support involved.

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Finance and workInformation

How do fostering allowances work?

Understand the financial support described by Caritas Care.

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Our finance page explains that foster carers receive an allowance when a child is in their care. It describes support for the child’s needs and a reward element for the carer. Speak with us about current arrangements.

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Can I work alongside fostering?

Consider flexibility and the time a child may need.

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Some carers have another job. You need to put the child’s needs first and allow time for meetings, appointments and training, including during the working day. Discuss how fostering could fit with your work.

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Planning your family finances

Bring your practical questions to a conversation with our team.

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Our finance page is a starting point for considering fostering and your budget. Ask about your circumstances, including retirement or benefits, and the current financial arrangements before deciding what is manageable for you.

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AssessmentInformation

From enquiry to application

Find out what happens after your first conversation.

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Following an initial discussion, we may arrange a visit. We then consider inviting you to apply and can help with the form.

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AssessmentInformation

Paperwork and checks

Learn about the information involved in assessment.

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Checks include criminal-record information, references and a medical report. The process page explains other enquiries and why early, open discussion is important.

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Home visits and assessment

Work with your social worker to explore fostering.

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Regular meetings with your social worker explore your life, current circumstances and expectations of becoming a fostering household.

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Attending the fostering panel

Understand the panel’s role and the support on the day.

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After your report is agreed, panel considers it and meets you before making a recommendation about your suitability. Your social worker supports you.

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Finding a suitable match

Consider the needs you and your family could meet.

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Once approved, you can discuss children’s profiles with our team as we work together to identify a suitable placement.

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When a child moves in

Support continues as you begin living together.

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Our team offers guidance as you start fostering, including practical support to help you build confidence in your new role.

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How much time could fostering involve?

Think about availability as well as the length of a placement.

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Short-term care can involve uncertain timescales and little notice. Other children need a lasting home. Our Time to Foster page helps you consider these commitments.

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Family lifeInformation

How might fostering affect my family?

Explore the experience of sharing family life.

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Fostering affects the people around you as well as the child you welcome. Our family page shares carers’ experiences and a young person’s perspective on growing up with foster siblings.

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Helping children feel part of the family

Read how one household approached relationships and shared space.

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In their story, Sobia and Akmal reflect on fostering siblings alongside their own children. They describe shared interests, respecting space and the support that helped their family.

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Birth family relationships

Keep the child’s wellbeing at the centre of family connections.

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We offer guidance around birth family contact and relationships. Talk with your supervising social worker about support for the child in your care.

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Safer caring and recording

Understand the responsibilities that accompany day-to-day care.

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Our Statement of Purpose includes safeguarding, safer care and recording within foster-carer training. Your social worker can help you understand the guidance and responsibilities relevant to your household.

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Ongoing supportInformation

Your supervising social worker

A regular point of contact throughout fostering.

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Your supervising social worker offers regular guidance. Our service also provides out-of-hours support; ask your team how to access it when you need it.

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Learning throughout your fostering journey

Keep developing your knowledge and confidence.

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Training continues after approval. Our FAQs describe learning opportunities and tailored support from the Therapeutic Intervention Service. Ask our team about current provision.

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Education and school life

Work together to help a child feel understood at school.

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Our team can support your work with schools and education settings around the needs of children in your care.

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Understanding trauma and attachment

Learn how a child’s experiences may affect relationships and behaviour.

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We help carers understand the impact of early experiences and respond to individual children’s needs. Specialist services may be involved where additional support is needed.

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Support for you as a foster carer

Find someone to talk to and learn from other carers.

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Our support includes listening, practical guidance and opportunities to connect with other foster carers. You can share experiences and ask for help as challenges arise.

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Foster carer reviews

Reflect on your experience, development and the care you provide.

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Our Statement of Purpose describes annual reviews of foster carers and their households. Reviews consider areas including care, training, work with other agencies and changing circumstances. Discuss the process with your supervising social worker.

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Transferring agenciesInformation

Thinking about transferring?

Begin by discussing your situation with our team.

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If you are considering a move to another fostering agency, we are happy to talk with you and support you through the process. Our transferring agencies page also links to transfer guidance from The Fostering Network.

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Transferring with a child in your care

Understand why stability comes first.

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Our first consideration is keeping the placement secure. The agencies involved discuss how a transfer can proceed with as little disruption as possible for the child.

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What support could I expect after transferring?

Get to know the service you would be joining.

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At Caritas Care, support for transferring carers includes:

  • A competitive weekly fostering allowance
  • Training and development opportunities
  • Support from a qualified social worker
  • A 24/7 on-call service
  • Regular activities for children and young people
  • Foster carer support groups and socials
  • The Fostering Network membership

Talk with our team about your circumstances and the support your family needs.

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Sue and Carolyn: a wider circle of support

See how relationships between carers can support a young person.

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Sue and Carolyn describe how regular sleepovers and connections between their households grew into a wider sense of family. Read their personal account of belonging and support.

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Gaynor and Stuart: growing as a family

Explore a family’s experience of fostering over time.

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Gaynor and Stuart reflect on choosing an agency, adapting to children’s needs and the impact on their own family. Their account includes long-term care for sisters.

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Sobia and Akmal: fostering together

Read about fostering siblings alongside their own children.

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Sobia and Akmal share why they chose a charity, how their family built relationships and the importance of support. Their story offers one family’s perspective on the challenges and rewards.

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How long does it take to become a foster carer?

Understand the usual assessment timescale.

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Our FAQs give a usual timescale of six to eight months after we receive a completed application. It can be quicker for experienced or existing foster carers. This is a guide, not a guaranteed approval date; talk with us about your circumstances.

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Can I foster if I’m single?

Single people are welcome to apply.

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Yes. We welcome single foster carers. Our FAQs describe successful placements where children have benefited from individual attention. Contact our team to explore fostering as a single person.

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Can I foster in a same-sex relationship?

We welcome LGBTQ+ foster carers.

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Yes. Our focus is finding loving, stable families for children. Caritas Care’s FAQs welcome LGBTQ+ foster carers and describe membership of New Family Social and Proud2beParents.

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What qualities help a foster carer?

People from many backgrounds can bring valuable strengths.

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There is no single ideal foster carer. Our FAQs highlight empathy, patience, adaptability and perseverance, alongside the diversity of our carers’ backgrounds and family circumstances.

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Can I work and foster?

Employment can fit alongside fostering when children’s needs come first.

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Yes, some carers also have other jobs. You need flexibility to prioritise a child’s needs and attend appointments, meetings, training and support groups, including during the day. Discuss how your work could fit around fostering.

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Will past mental health difficulties prevent me fostering?

Your individual circumstances are considered.

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All applicants have a medical assessment. Our agency medical adviser considers your health, its impact and your ability to meet a child’s needs. Speak with the team about your circumstances rather than ruling yourself out.

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Can I foster if someone in my household smokes?

The age of the child matters.

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Our FAQs state that if anyone in your household smokes, you cannot foster a child under five. You can still attend information events. Ask our team for the full smoking and vaping policy and available assistance.

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What support will I receive?

You will have a dedicated supervising social worker.

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Your supervising social worker provides regular support in person and by phone. Our small, family-focused team welcomes you to reach out for advice, encouragement or someone to listen.

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Can I foster if I have a visible or non-visible disability?

We welcome enquiries from people with visible and non-visible disabilities.

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Yes, we welcome enquiries from people with visible and non-visible disabilities. As part of the fostering process, you will need to have a medical assessment. We’ll talk you through the process and discuss your individual circumstances with you to help us understand whether fostering could be right for you.

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